Comments on: How I Dealt With Pain (My Mom Died–Part 4) http://www.jaimebuckley.com/2010/01/how-i-dealt-with-pain-my-mom-died-part-4/ Wed, 19 Oct 2011 19:42:13 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: jaime http://www.jaimebuckley.com/2010/01/how-i-dealt-with-pain-my-mom-died-part-4/comment-page-1/#comment-20 jaime Fri, 08 Jan 2010 03:38:16 +0000 http://www.jaimebuckley.com/?p=370#comment-20 Sonya, there are <em>'Uncle Bob's'</em> all around. That may be your husband, your best friend, your own children. It could even be a stranger with a similar past--like the manager of that restaurant. For me it happened to be my Uncle for one reason or I would have gone with my wife (she would have let me be what I needed to be for me to heal). It was because my Uncle and I share a previous history of violence in our backgrounds. We could relate to each other on a very deep, personal level and he knew I needed to vent out loud...to which he wouldn't take offense if I was foul in my anger. I was, and he loved me anyway. It's never easy, but like I said, it never get's better. We learn to cope. We keep going. You have a great set of sisters. I remember how great your family was when we were younger and I cannot believe for a second that foundation has evaporated from any of you girls. Thank you for the comment. Sonya, there are ‘Uncle Bob’s’ all around. That may be your husband, your best friend, your own children. It could even be a stranger with a similar past–like the manager of that restaurant. For me it happened to be my Uncle for one reason or I would have gone with my wife (she would have let me be what I needed to be for me to heal). It was because my Uncle and I share a previous history of violence in our backgrounds. We could relate to each other on a very deep, personal level and he knew I needed to vent out loud…to which he wouldn’t take offense if I was foul in my anger. I was, and he loved me anyway.

It’s never easy, but like I said, it never get’s better. We learn to cope. We keep going. You have a great set of sisters. I remember how great your family was when we were younger and I cannot believe for a second that foundation has evaporated from any of you girls.

Thank you for the comment.

]]> By: Sonyia Fayal http://www.jaimebuckley.com/2010/01/how-i-dealt-with-pain-my-mom-died-part-4/comment-page-1/#comment-18 Sonyia Fayal Fri, 08 Jan 2010 03:15:38 +0000 http://www.jaimebuckley.com/?p=370#comment-18 You made me cry, I can't even imagine your pain. I just hope when the time comes for my sweet dear mother to meet the Lord, I will have someone like your uncle to help me through it. You made me cry, I can’t even imagine your pain. I just hope when the time comes for my sweet dear mother to meet the Lord, I will have someone like your uncle to help me through it.

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